Major transitions in evolution shift selection to a higher level. Some require high
relatedness (multicellularity, eusociality) and some do not (obligate mutualisms,
sexual partnership). I will argue that strict, life-time commitment between partners
(gametes, parents, somatic cells, and families) appears to be a very general
requirement for realizing major transitions. It captures high offspring relatedness
following sexual partner choice and it produces analogous alignments of
reproductive interests when mutualistic partner choice is “supra-sexual”. Life-time
commitment is very difficult to achieve in nature, but all eukaryote life is somehow
based on it. As it seems, life-time commitment does not remove all reproductive
conflict, but enough of it to allow lineages to diversity and become ecologically
successful. Fungus-farming ants and termites have proven to be good models for
studying questions of partner commitment and will continue to offer rich
opportunities now that sequenced genomes are becoming available.